Whoever said it would get easier needs to be shot! It doesn't get easier. This kids are crazy! They don't get along, they have the attention span of a nat, they fight, scream and bite, and all the sensory issues to boot. I think I'm gonna lose it.
I get very stressed out when my house is flipped upside down. My laundry is filling the basement, the dishes are constantly dirty, the house has toys everywhere. I read somewhere that "Cleaning up after triplets is like blowing up a balloon with a hole in it" I couldn't agree more. That's all I do all day, pick up toys, put babies in timeout, and change diapers. I could just rip my hair out.
I think I need a night away. I need to find a Mommy's helper or a sitter...anyone know of one in the area? Greg and I haven't had time alone since the Cavs playoff game when Lebron hit that 3 pointer in the last second of the game...I have no clue how long ago that was, but I know it's been awhile. The stress of having 3 babies can really get to the 2 of us. I totally see why that Jon & Kate split. All the stress they were under and having the whole world weighing in on it. I know how hard it is just to have Inlaws let alone the whole world.
Speaking of Inlaws.....If you attend the same Church we do, I'm sure you heard that Dylan is running and speaking in sentences, Ava is doing the same and Ryan has outgrew all his problems and is talking in sentences, saying grandma & grandpa etc.....All of this couldn't be further from the truth! Ryan has started walking, but he is having some other major issues that is preventing him from talking and gaining weight etc. Ava is a pistol, who really never udders a word, let alone a sentence. Dylan is running and screaming all the time, and is having some sensory issues along with troubles with his bowels. All the babies are having trouble putting and keeping weight on. They are not on the growth chart and are falling further from it. They need all the extra fats for brain development etc, and we're having a hard time getting them to take it. Hopefully this Sunday we can make it there, so that we can give everyone an accurate update.
I guess it's time to get off the soapbox and get back to cleaning, since Ryan just decided that crackers need to be smashed into the carpet ARGH!
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Shelly... BREATHE! it's so hard and I felt like this a few weeks ago this toddler stage is seriously kicking my butt and we just started UGH! I appreciate your open and honest vent it helps me realize I am not alone and I want you to know you aren't either it just plain sucks at times! Try and get the night away or a break I know it's easier said than done but right Now I am trying to figure out something I can do for myself because I definitely need a BREAK as well! you are an amazing mama don't forget that!
Shelly,
Hang in there girl! I know exactly how you feel.
As a matter of fact my house is in total chaos at this very moment, yet here I am on the computer just blocking it all out.
You definitely need to get away, isn't there someone at church willing to help? I hope you guys can get that away time soon.
Keep your head up.
where in ohio do you live? i'm in the cincy area, and am part of a multiples support group-tristate multiples. it's wonderful! let me know if you're in the area!
I've told you a million times!! I'm here if you need any help!! I've been there and survived! You will get through it, it's rough. I still have those days, but they are getting further apart, not very far, but they are! lol Have a glass of wine and vegge out, sista! ;)
Let's get together and let the kids play and once you feel comfortable, I'd be happy to come over and give you guys a break!! SERIOUSLY!!!!
Join the club! LOL!
Wow. So sorry to hear about your stress and I completely understand (the sensory junk, the marriage stress, the need to run away for an hour or few). Wish this fellow triplet +1 mom lived closer to you so I could help out. Take care.
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